Me, Him and 3 In A Row

This post is as regards my last two. Mxem! don't mind me on this picture...was just whiling away time.

Well the discussion today is why women and men cheat? You should've been in the office today as i asked my co-workers why they cheat. Women(ladies) talked against men,and the guys were supporting themselves.

I had the following answers:
A woman cheat:
-When she isn't satisfied sexually(1st and foremost!)
-When she realises her man is cheating on her
-Due to distance relationships
-For the fun of it
-The recent inaugration of a 50/50 thing
-When she knows that her man loves her that much and will forgive her if he gets to find out.
-To test if her man loves her(oh my God!)
-Sugar daddies

A man cheat:
-Because He is a man!
-He doesn't give birth,and a woman does
-It was meant to be like that from the start(which start?)
-Makes him feel more of a man
-For the fun of it
-He's in competition with his friends
-Due to distance relationship
-Feeling lust about a girl
-Sugar mummies
-Has got more to give than take(..nonsense!..)

(Who's got the longest list?)

Okay. Maybe you wondering if i've ever cheated? Who? Me?..mxem!..haven't you?. There's no one who can say they haven't cheated abih? Raise your hands..let's see? See?..no one!
Well my reason for that was...ermmm..what was the reason? Mind you i did it only once oo!
Wait a blessed minute! Cheating here i mean going out with one person while also having another intact relationship. Yes thats what i mean. But in a situation where by you break up with one,and then get involved with another,thats no cheating now is it?

My co-workers(especially the men) were like from the beginning,long time ago,during our ancestral times,men were allowed to have more than one. Marry as many as they wanted. So thats when it started. That men should have more than one! The question(mind the u is following the q) now is should that apply to our present times? Ubong Da might be knodding his head!..and maybe DOG supporting him too! To hell with you..lol...I'll still come to tell you why i cheated.
So if ever it happens that i have a lil family of my own i would talk it over with my husband. I wouldn't want a chef of gardener or maid(house girls and boys). Abeg..the last two posts are funny but they carry more meaning than what just meets the eye. Anyway..i gues by the time i do my 3 IN A ROW will be old enuff not to need more hands to help in the house. Or maybe they'll be off to places of their own. Remember Olamild was talking about FAMILY? Thats what it is to me. Wife, husband and the kids. Full stop.

If my husband and i can have that kinda fun...and i mean REAL FUN, what will i(we) be needing the house helpers for? Unless if we wanna bring wahala to the house! God forbid oo!

Now have you ever cheated?...why?

What Is It In A Name?,ie,Name Tag

Hi everyone! Hope you guys had a great weekend.Yes weekend,coz i just reported to work like today.So to me today is my monday.We had what we call long weekend.It was President's Holidays monday and tuesday,and Oh God! had my most resting time i ever needed.Yes i'm back with a bang and i been doing the rounds in blogville before i can sit here and bore you with my escapades of the (long)weekend.

It's Tia again.My cousin,Faith came over from college(where she's studying to become a teacher-if i hadn't quit my teacher training thing too,there was gonna be two teachers in my family.Well thats the past now..don't need to cry over spilt milk do i?) Okay yes she came and she and i visited Tia at her house.
You know these days she just wanna be with me all the time,because when she called me monday morning to come over she was like, ''hey wena,you better hurry up,coz i miss you this side''. Ehh? Tia missing me? Wassup with this girl? I think the pregnancy is starting to get to her now.You know how it's like when you pregnant? Dammnit! i'm not refering to the boys and those girls who haven't fallen pregnant before okay? When you are pregnant there are somethings you don't want,you just naturally develop hatred for, you see? There are people you don't wanna see.Like i hated Vicky's dad so much when i was still carrying her(Vicky).There are things you want and don't want to eat.

Oh! again,some people wanted to know what happened after Tia told me that she was pregnant for a married man right? Ermm..well we talked a lot about it.I just told her that it wasn't the baby's problem,and that she wasn't goinno punish that soul for what she(Tia) did.I told her it was gonna be fine.With me,her family and the people who loved her around,everything was goinno be just fine.On the days that followed we ate out a lot coz she always said she was craving for a Wimpy double bugger...that brought a smile to her face everytime she had it,and i figured she was begining to see reason with me,for her to keep that baby.

So hey guys,Tia and i are very much excited about the baby.Hope you are too.See now she's getting that pregnancy complexion,just getting more beautiful everyday.Problem is she gets very moody sometimes! Yes it has already started oo! But you know me now? I know these things.I been there done that,you can put it that way...lol

So when we get to her house,dang! can you believe this? she asks me to cook for her! ''Ah-ah Tia please we just got in,You should've prepared something for your visitors now-abeg''..Holy God! Gues what happened next! She's crying oo! Just because i complained! Oh no! am i goinno start baby-sitting already? with this big mama? Was i really like this with my first pregnancy? i don't remember!

Okay.I decide to abide by the rules now.I don't want her to hurt anymore.Anything she's gonna ask i'll do without complaining.Provided i can.I don't want her to hurt the baby.So i did the cooking(i must admit i'm aint good at this, somebody somewhere knows that i can't do good at this,but i'm learning now,i gues i'll be better the next time we meet) ,she's there gisting with Faith.I've never known Tia could be so talkative.Can somebody really change like that when they fall pregnant?

We are done with eating neh? So now it just happened that we ended up tryina come up with names for the baby.It was a very difficult thing to do.Because we had to come up with 4 names(two Tswana names-girl & boy and two english names-girl & boy).Everytime i tried to say out a name and Tia didn't like it,she'll lash out at me! I donno...one minute she's all over me,the next she wants to kill me! Hee bathong! This girl!
English names are so very easy to pick.You can go sit and meditate in the toilet,then all of a sudden come out screaming Tom,Tim,Ben,Arnold,Peter,Donald,Jerry for boys or waking up from a deep sleep you can shout Lizzy,Emily,Samantha,Mary,Judy for girls.But with our traditional names you have sit and scratch your head because it has to come with a very meaningful meaning.

My middle name is Seane.This just means Proverb,not any proverb in particular,but just that word.Vicky's middle name is Tsholofelo.It means Hope.It's my mum who named her that one.I never came up with any name for her.My mum called her Tsholofelo and her father called her Victoria.Don't ask me why i never named her.And then Jnr's middle name is Thatoyaone.It means God's Love,but again this guy loves me oo! When i'm home he never leaves my side.When they are watching t.v and they are sitting down on the mat,you know how it's like with traditional women,kids don't sit on seats when watching t.v especially when other neighbouring kids are over,so when they are sitting on the mat,Jnr is here by my feet.
And then Jeddah's middle name is Motshidisi,meaning Life Saviour.Dammnit! no wonder he looks out for his brother and sister!

So then in that case you have to be careful which name you came up with because i tried to bring forward Dikeledi,meaning Tears,which is my grandmother's name.Yes i wanted to name Tia's baby after my grandma.She almost broke my neck!

What does your name mean?