It had gotten me thinkin..
What is the one single thing you'll like to change about your partner? Or what is it that you want him/her to change about themselves? Something that you know, that if its changed, your relationship will stand the test of time?
I need your answers guys.
Blessed weekend!
Ciaaaooo!
19 comments:
I would want him to not just hear me
but listen and reason with what I have to say.
I would want him to not just say what he feels but thinks of how I might feel before he says whatever he says to me.
I would want him to know that a relationship requires deep communication and trust.
Hmmm this one i guess i am not a contributer .... For various reasons ofcourse
She tried changing me into her fairy tale elf, it didnt work, she went ahead and tried to control me, I punched her face blue n purple... what she did was change me into a monster. Now thats why you cant change people, what you get is what you Love.
nothing, quite honestly. she indulges me, accepts my whims and makes an effort not to try and control me
hmm, have to think abt this one o..lol
i wud have said nothing i love her as she si, but thats not the case
ild like her to take time in her appearance, becoz i do, for her, so ild like thesame.
have a nice weekend yourself
lol -can't say but use your imagination...
:D
hmmm
well, our rship is relatively young, so maybe i've not seen d worst of him ... lol
but as it is, i like him as he is. sure, he's not perfect, but he accepts my imperfections so well i couldn't even tot of complaining abt his
oh well, i guess a little more money wouldn't hurt. just 2 make life easier... do i sound like a gold-digger here? nah, just being honest
The truth is that i wont change anything,,,, because the strange thing is that, if me and her are really meant to be, i should able to stand her and all her attitude and whatever...
and when we are far from each other, its the most silly things about her that i will miss the most,,,,
so the whole koko is if you meet your missing rib, you will love him/her just the way they are...
Nothing, cos I believe we stand the test of time with each passing day an I have come to accept him 4 who he is.
Wen I notice stuff bout him that I dont like, I tell him n he tries 2 adjust, n we pray bout it. Same thing happens with me.
hmmm what willi change?i am single does that question apply to me?
I don't know if i would want to change him in anyway. I think when 2 ppl come together it's really important to see that no one is perfect...and to accept each other as you are. It may be those little imperfections that made you find each other in the first place!!
@jarrai , you spoke my mind exactly.
No one is perfect so if i expect him to tolerate my imperfections, i should be able to live with his too.
As love as he truly loves and cares for me, i can live with that!
hhmmph well seein that im partnerless i cant comment
If i love him, i should be alble to accept him the way he is, ish and all!
So for me, its nothing.
I will come back when I have one...
What's ur problem sef...are you trying to remind me I am still single and on sabatical?
I know u r laughing at the sabbatical bit....but I HAVE BEEN GOOD!!!
@ALL...Thank you so much guys for all the comments you put here. I must say that they(the comments) will play a very big and important role on my next fiction story.
Once again...thank you.
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