Friday, April 04, 2008

5 Simple Rules To Be Happy

1. Free your heart from hatred.
2. Free your mind from worries.
3. Live simply.
4. Give more.
5. Expect less.

No one can go back and make a brand new start. Anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending. God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow, sun without rain, but he did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears, and light for the way.

Disappointments are like road humps, they slow u down a bit but u enjoy the smooth road afterwards. Don't stay on the humps too long. Move on!!!

When u feel down because u didn't get what u want, just sit tight and b happy, because God is thinking of something better.

When something happens to u, good or bad, consider what it means. There's a purpose to life's events, to teach u how to laugh more or not to cry too hard.

You can't make someone love u, all u can do is to be someone who can be loved, the rest is up to the person to realize your worth.

The measure of love is when u love without measure. In life there are very rare chances the you'll meet the person u love and loves u in return. So once u have it don't even let go, the chance might never come your way again.

It's better to lose your pride to the one you love, than to lose the one u love because of pride. We spend too much time looking for the right person to love or finding faults with those who we already love, when instead we should be perfecting the love we give.

When u truly care for someone, u don’t look for faults, u don't look for answers, and you don't look for mistakes. Instead, u fight the mistakes, u accept the faults, and you over look the excuses.

Never abandon an old friend. You'll never find one who can take his place. Friendship is like wine, it gets better as it grows older.

This is meant for my friend Lebo. Forget about her going out with my ex, after all we did to her and for her. Forget about her looking up to me as her sister, and looking up to Rogy as her brother, and yet going out all the way to screw him! Forget about all that. The poor girl has lost weight, she can't think straight. She's even finding it hard to live on the same neighbourhood with him. Guys, she's finding it hard to let go of Rogy(who has brought in another live in girlfriend). She's finding it hard to move on. I'm trying on my side to make her see that there's still life after that guy. Look where i am since i parted with him. She cud do the same. I told her all she needs is time. Time heals all wounds. And in folowing those 5 rules above,she'll make it thru.


P.S Can somebody please tell Nkemugo that i wud like to visit his blog. I can't log into his page. Blessed weekend guys. Love y'all.

16 comments:

Afrobabe said...

I am first again...lol

Zayzee said...

u always inspire me.

Unknown said...

hmmmmmm, you have a very big heart o!!

:-)

I tried logging into ugo's page and I couldn't get on. Na wetin dey happen??
:-(



I love your rules they are so true and so real....

Unknown said...

expect less is definitely true talk.

anonymous gal(retired blogger) said...

nice

Afrobabe said...

Ugo said he had personal ish to deal with and no one has been invited...he will reopen when he sorts out the ish...

Parakeet said...

Nice and inspiring post...well done.

ShadeCrown said...

feeling evry single thing on the list. very well said! Have a blessed week :)

Anonymous said...

preach it sister...n pls someone should convey d same message to ugo on my behalf!!lol

InCogNaija said...

true talk...i agree o. and this just put a confirmation stamp on the ruminations of my heart...how you doin?

soupasexy said...

awwww nice, poor lebo thats what she gets for taking ur man, ha!

diary of a G said...

It's better to lose your pride to the one you love, than to lose the one u love because of pride.

I heard that qoute before in a fab
song....lovedid it

wut it b's like?

Jayn Sean said...

@Afro...lol

@Uzezi...you inspire me too babes

@Pam...the rules are soo true oo! And i gues if followed right, one will eventually see that light at the end of the tunnel.

Ugo shud come back oo! I cant stand the suspence.

@Anonymous gal..thought so too girlie..

@Afro...when has any blogger started having problems and then keep it to themselves? So Ugo thinks he'll sort himself out alone abih? Mmmmh! Okay. So his friends dont matter? I see...

@Ollay...thank you.

@Sha..come back quick and gist about your getaway weekend oo!

@Pink-Satin...who does Ugo think he is?**hissss**...i dont like it oo!

@Incognaija..i'm doing great mehn! You?..ruminations of your heart ke?...lol..yeah yeah true thingd..

@Soupasexy...i have a forgiving heart i gues. But sometimes i grind my teeth...lol..dont mind me!

@DoG...doing as fine always mann! How about you? Havent been to your page in a while now. Need to get there as fast as i can i gues. Hope there's something new...and not sex related...lol..kiddin'...

Aphrodite said...

"When u truly care for someone, u don’t look for faults, u don't look for answers, and you don't look for mistakes. Instead, u fight the mistakes, u accept the faults, and you over look the excuses"

I'll try to remember this always.

Jay said...

"The measure of love is when u love without measure". I am so feeling this quote..

Your blog always makes me take a step back and reflect. Inspiring indeed. Keep them coming!

Jay said...

"The measure of love is when u love without measure". I am so feeling this quote..

Your blog always makes me take a step back and reflect. Inspiring indeed. Keep them coming!