Tuesday, April 15, 2008

When The Heart Says No

...(cell phone rings)

''Hey babe?''

''Hi. You busy?''

''Not that much. Why?''

''I wanted us to meet. I wanna talk to you.''

''About?''

''Meet me at Mophane restuarant in 30 minutes.''

''Ooooh babe can't it wait for later?''

''No Becky, it can't wait. Mophane rest. 30 minutes''

...

Oh God! What is it again? We've been talking about this many a times without number. I don't wanna talk anymore. Jason is just being so unreasonable! Why cant he control his temper? Why cant he be patient like i am? Why does he wanna rush things? I mean, it's been 4 years! 4 solid years, and we are still fighting over one thing. One thing only! God!-

''B, you're okay?''

''Hey Su, i'm fine. Its just that-''

''Its Jason again right?''

**sigh**

''Rebbecah, why don't you just go ahead and do as he says? You don't wanna lose him to another girl do yah?''

''Susan!''

''Ah-ah! Abeg, i know my name. How long has it been? 3, 4 years? And you sitting there tryina play some good girl?.**long hiss** What hasn't he done for you? Huh? What? Your wish has been his command all this time. Anytime. Anything you wanted was just a phone call away. And Becky he's been taking all this bull from you for how long now? Eeh? For how long is this your bloody heart gonna say no? Just for how long? Girlfriend, look, just give Jason what he wants and get it over and done with. Its for your own good ooo! For your own!''

''Suzzy, i know okay? I know. But we've talked about this with Jason over and over again! I can't deal with it anymore, you know? There's even come a point where i can't think of what to say any longer? Why can't Jason try and reason with me just for once Suzzy? Once. Why? Is that too much to ask? Yes he's done all i ever wanted for me, he's given me all the love in the world, and for that i'm thankful. But was it a gatepass to have me jump to any and every call he makes? Su, just look at it from a serious-minded woman's point of view okay? Or maybe take your very own experiences for example. What happened after you went to Pet's house? Why didnt he wanna see you after that? Boiki stopped taking your calls. Sam gave told you about his daughter after you guys slept together. Why the fuck are you not dating right now? Susan i been there done that, please, and i aint going thru that route ever again. If Jason can't wait then let him go catch another fish. There are so many of them swimming around you know?. Coz i'm willing to wait, and thats exactly what i'm gonna do.''

''If you say so girlfriend. But just know that when the world comes crashing down on you, i'll be right here to dry all those tears from your eyes..''

23 comments:

Jay said...

As for rebecca, please put some ear plugs on sista, that suzzy is not to be listened to. Do not be pressured into something you do not want to give up. Is it by force??!!!
The guy has waited this long, a little more will do him no harm. And if he wants to waka, abeg let him carry his load and vamoose….love shouldn’t make you do things that will cause you to be unhappy. I have said my piece

O'Dee said...

What world is goin 2 crash down. Abeg don't open ur legs 4 d guy. Suzzy just wants some1 to go thru what she has gone thru jo.

Like u said he should be patient. N if he truly wants u as his wife, he will.

lol @ ur comment bout D.
Am fine oh, u?

Zayzee said...

time will tell exactly what he wants

diary of a G said...

Men! why can't they be alot more like me!?! Gosh lol. I should start a skool fo em

Thirty + said...

Like I always say follow your heart (provided you have guarded it before and not open it to all asundry rubbish).

You grab

Anyhoos rock on babe

ablackjamesbond said...

strong but good stance. She looks like she know what she wants.

Are u going to continue this story?

isha said...

TRUE LOVE WAITS.

If he's been doing your every wish just because he's trying to dig up your treasure, not only does he need to look for another fish, YOU NEED to find yourself someone who's on the same page as you. It's that simple, it may be painful/heart wrenching, but it's really simple...

Jennifer A. said...

It really does pay to wait for the right time...it's not easy. But its worth it.

If he loves u, he'll wait for u. Easier said than done, but doable. :)

Ubong Da said...

My people talk say Congo no get meter o!

Afrobabe said...

Hmmmm…4 years…that’s a dannnnnn long time to wait for cochie!!!

I think he might be a keeper…But whats he waiting to tie the knot for???

anonymous gal(retired blogger) said...

4 years...he tried o.

ShadeCrown said...

abeg make him wait for ever jare, why is he complaining after waiting for 4 years. he shud hang in there and be patient..lol

Ms. emmotions said...

4 year ???????
gal u sure both of u know wat u are doing?
no to him fr 4 yrs? wat has been happening in btw ....i mean all the while....both of u been waiting or wat????????

hope u good tho

Prettylyf said...

Stand for your principles!

Prettylyf said...

Stand for your principles!

Prettylyf said...

Stand for your principles!

soupasexy said...

am just wondering what exactly diary of a g means

4yrs? wow, that's amazing!

the antipop said...

he will/is get/getting it somewhere else. i know lots of people like that. abstaining with tha real gal, yet getting it on wit all else. tell her he wont wait longer. but you gotta hand it to her. 4 years of self restraint? that ought to be a good woman.

Unknown said...

lol!!

First, men never wait that long for coochie...

might have waited 4 years for HER coochie...doesn't mean he isn't gbaanshing someone on the side...

:D

Unknown said...

anyways sha -
She has four options:

1) let it go - if her coochie is so important in the relationship; she has to decide if she wants to remain with the stress of no giving or let it go.

2) illegally giving - have sex with the dude

3) legally giving - marry the guy and have sex with him.

4) open relationship - decide not to give and let him go get it from else where...

but me I no believe that this guy waited 4 years just for her stuff ...pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee....

Edirin said...

ah you still need to understand that hes a guy, 4 yrs is still a long time, i understand, but guys are guys

but up to u tottally

princesa said...

"There are so many of them swimming around you know?. Coz i'm willing to wait, and thats exactly what i'm gonna do"

Very true. But let's hope she doesnt wait forever.

Unknown said...

lol
thank you ojare.....


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