Expand Your Happiness...(Happy New Year)

Compliments Blogville!!! I hope everybody came back wholely after the crazyness of lighting fireworks. Well..i came back still as the bubbly Jaybabe you all know. Another year has started and that calls for more gists and keeping Blogvillagers up dated on the goings on around everyone. I hope to be bloging as much as i would love but then i have my own resolutions now, abeg, i am supposed to have those right? Well they are not many:
-No alcohol
-Minimum going out
-Getting much closer to God
-Expand my happiness as far as i can
-And by the grace of God, i wanna realise one of my dreams this year. Pray for me guys...Yeah thats all. And for that i would love to share this with all of you:

Expand your happiness by learning from past years mistakes. New Year should be treated like another chance in life to leave all past mistakes behind and start all over again, a time to review the past year and to obtain the essence of the past many months of work. The essence means to learn what was good and what should be changed and HOW things need to be changed if changes are needed.

From year to year all should progress - progress means:
- improve
- more happiness
- more peace in family and neighborhood
- better health
- more fun and joy in life
- more financial stability by reducing expenses to a healthy relationship with the actual income
- Having learned to stay well within your own limits - i.e. stay OUT of OTHER peoples private business unless asked to do so for helping. Focus on YOUR problems an solve them better each year.
- Having improved your professional skills and expertise / knowledge to have a solid basis for life and for your happy future
- Having reduced the number and quality of struggles with others by leaving them more and more in peace and focus on your own many problems to solve.

FIRST there are lessons that repeat year after year. Click HERE for more.

Like the previous New Years messages: Click HERE for more.

New progress is ONLY possible on the basis of accomplished earlier basic lessons. Before even thinking of or attempting new progress - first assure you have done all the basic lessons of life to create peace of mind and emotional stability in life. We must review the past, to obtain all essence and to preview possibilities of the future year. We must work hard to achieve our goal, to improve and re-harvest again until all are happy around us. The happiness we have created as a result of a fruitful and successful year we gave:
- love
- professional help and advice
- shelter and support
- happiness in many ways to all around us

Hence the many happy people we have created in this ending year will be the source of our next years happiness...and so on.
Happiness always bounces back ...but only the happiness WE have created in others bounces back. What we do for money to earn our living and pay for our shelter,that is for our very personal use only and has little to do with love. All we do beyond business and without money,just for fun and for free,to neighbors or friends, foreigners of any nation...that is what really counts toward true happiness in the coming year. In eternal life only the love you gave matters for your heart. How much did we all contribute to a better and more peaceful life in more freedom by more people on this planet?
How many past conflicts did YOU solve in your life these past months?

It still is time with more open hearts than most other seasons of the year. Hence it still is time to reconcile, to embrace and hug, to love,to forgive and enjoy new achieved loving happiness in an expanding global family: Click HERE to read more.

A few sweets or a few flowers do miracles and may help to open a heart otherwise closed for reconciliation - some extra efforts and a true gift of love to make someone smile again...

Happy New Year to you all.