Tuesday, December 11, 2007

Not Yet A Woman


When a GIRL is quiet ... millions of things are running in her mind.
When a GIRL is not arguing ... she is thinking deeply.
When a GIRL looks at u with eyes full of questions ... she is wondering how long you will be around.
When a GIRL answers " I'm fine " after a few seconds ... she is not at all fine.

When a GIRL stares at you ... she is wondering why you are lying.
When a GIRL lays on your chest ... she is wishing for you to be hers forever.
When a GIRL wants to see you everyday... she wants to be pampered.
When a GIRL says " I love you " ... she means it.
When a GIRL says " I miss you " ... no one in this world can miss you more than that.

Life only comes around once make sure u spend it with the right person .... Find a guy ... who calls you beautiful instead of hot.
who calls you back when you hang up on him.
who will stay awake just to watch you sleep.
Wait for the guy who ... kisses your forehead.
Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats.
Who holds your hand in front of his friends.
Who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you.
Who turns to his friends and says, " That's her!! "

14 comments:

Unknown said...

This is the sweetest post ever
"Wait for the guy who ... kisses your forehead.
Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats. "

I really like that part.

lol at that picture
that's so wrong but the lil girl is adorable.

Unknown said...

So true..... So very true...

Jayn Sean said...

@Ola...LOL..can you imagine the lil gal? With all the make up and all...bwahahaha...funny
Refering to unNaked's latest post-isn't that what we wish for as women? Dammmmmnnn! if only i cud find a guy who'll do that!

@Pammy...more than the word true..

Afrobabe said...

True...what we all want and deserve..

An-Igbo-Dude said...

heyy, i have seen this before...

hmmm, let me think.....

yesssss, facebook

howdy? whats been happening to u

anonymous gal(retired blogger) said...

who is the cute lil gal?

Jayn Sean said...

@Afro..take your 5 gurl!!!

@Ibo Dee...i been good oo! can't complain. Just my leg. But its coming up alright.

@Anony girl..that lil gal is Pamela when she was 2 and a half years old..(dont laugh..else she'll kill me)

princesa said...

So what’s the difference if a guy calls you hot??
Beautiful sounds nice but I still like hot too*wink*

A girl definitely needs a a man to respect, protect and cherish her.
Nice one girl.

Jayn Sean said...

@Princesa..i think when he says you are hot, he means you are too hot for him to even handle, but if he says you are beautiful, he means that from the in and out side. I think beautiful carries more meaning than just being hot...lol..thats just my thoughts now..

eddiie said...

Who turns to his friends and says, " That's her!! "

I think i would go for that as a guy..I think that one carries a lot of confidence in it..

Guys can sometimes be so reserved and when they stand out the crowd to show you out? then just know he is into you...

So am even spilling a secret to the ladies..Gosh!!!

who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. .......

I only see this in movies but i would love to give it a try!!! Hmmmmm..it would be sweet!!

Wait for the guy who ... kisses your forehead.,....

I think this happens in movies as well..We African men just do not have the courage to do that especially in public...Guys,..am i lieing?

guy ... who calls you beautiful instead of hot.....

Guys which of the two words it better..Jay..it seems you would prefer hot instead f beautiful..right?

Who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you.......

This makes the ladies over blush..and of course guys will just get discouraged. Sometimes a two-way process would make it meaningful..One way would make one look to be benshing...Jay i hope you sing that too...

When a GIRL answers " I'm fine " after a few seconds ... she is not at all fine........

Now that is without a doubt true...I see this with my sisters..Her expressions only tell something is wrong....

When a GIRL lays on your chest ... she is wishing for you to be hers forever.???????????????

Jay..are you sure? Come on..i was talking to a friend who told me......"She will be wishing to swim in your pockets for as long as its full".......

When a GIRL says " I love you " ... she means it.....

Actually some say so when they are cheating you so much and so would love to take sure wrong intentions of ever doubting her....

Ok..i can handle all these..Believe me Jay i can answer all this..

But good observations...You must have really been so observant to check out all the above..But you didnt fair that bad...

SOLOMONSYDELLE said...

These are my sentiments exactly. I tried explaining this to a young niece but she lacked he ability to conceptualize the sort of man I was talking about. Well, I will send this to her and must use it with my daughter and sons.

As usual, a wonderful post!

Jayn Sean said...

@Eddiie..ectually i wud prefer beautiful than hot. I was forwarded this message, so i decided to share it with you guys. Most of those things relate to most of us women, and most of them are true. And i can say that from the way you are answering all those points, its like you been there, done that. So you know the consequences of every one of them points. Thanx for the enlightenment.

@Solomonsydelle..pliz send this to her, soonest! So that she'll know when the going gets tough.!

Writefreak said...

Great post and i do agree with them all! I think my hubby fits into the category of 'right man'. What would i say before? Is he not my husband..lol..but he does..
You're so right!

Jayn Sean said...

@Write freak..LOL..Yah of course he does. You the person who knows him more than we do right? God bless you and him ooo!**wink**