Sunday, November 04, 2007

Who Do We Question?

''For God so loved the world that he gave out his only son to die for our sins..''. I've heard this statement many times in my religious education lesson when i was still at juniour school. But now my boss has just lost her husband. Very sad. And in the incident it was like, ''for the husband loved his wife so much that he laid his life for her''. She and her husband have been married for as long as i can remember. They have three beautiful kids now. Two girls and a boy. In their family history, everytime she fell pregnant, she would become so very sick. But will get back to normal after giving birth. I mean it's normal to not feel well when pregnant. Morning sicknesses, nausea, fatique and all, but hers was unusual. Her feet will become swollen at..say the first two months. Very swollen she won't be able to walk. This time now, she's been admitted into hospital since discovering she was pregnant. And its been okay up till friday when we heard that the husband has committed suicide. It was on this friday that my boss gave birth to her son!

He left a note that he blames himself for his wife's sickness, and that he couldn't stand seeing her in hospital for that long. Who do we look up to for answers in this situation? What is my boss gonna tell her son? But you know how people are now? Ehh? They are asking whether thats the sole reason why the husband hanged himself. Mxem! Nonsense! We talking serious matter here. It's a very sad sad situation.



Anyhow sha, may his soul rest in perfect peace. I just shared that with you people coz it really gotten me wondering if love can really take control that one wouldn't mind practically taking their life coz they love someone. And also to let you guys know that i'll be gone for two weeks. I gotta write my exam now. Like i always say, a woman with multiple tasks's gotta do what she's gotta do. You people wish me luck oo! I really wanna finish this school thing. Have a lovely week ahead and the week after. Will miss everyone.

2nd half!

34 comments:

Unknown said...

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Eyin'ju Oluwa said...

All the best on your exam babe. I pray God grants your boss and her children the fortitude to bear this loss. Have a blessed week!!!

princesa said...

I dont understand ur bosses's hubby's love o! So what use is his corpse to the poor woman now??

Some peeps sha!

Good luck with ur exams girl!

EDNUTEY said...

OH WOW! now dat he's dead...what does he want d woman to do with d kids? this is really sad....na wa o

I wish u goodluck with ur exams...God will see u through

Unknown said...

I am so sorry for his loss. I really don't know what she is going to tell her son when he starts asking questions... :-(


good luck on your exam.


K was telling me the other day that a study done in the uk showed that people can die from a broken heart. So if that can happen, hmmmmmmmm

eddiie said...

Hmmmmmm...now thats sad news.I wonder why you are ever facing such very trying moments...

Thank God, blogger is theere because we are ever there to try and break down things...

Now dying for a partner? Hmmmmm thats really tricky.I just cannot tell how i can die for love.

Unless that babe is really really really really into my blood because thats almost unthinkable. I think...

Am lost for owrds surely.Now, JB, would you die for love? Ok atleast your kids but dying for love?

Now that demands absolute courage.It just cannot happen like that.

As ya off for exams, please have it sucessful.Pass for me....we do not want dumb bloggers...

Bloggers are bright fellows and so the ladies definately have to be upright upstairs....

Cheers....i will miss ya...But please PASS!!!!!

Unknown said...

LOL!! Eddie... :-)

SOLOMONSYDELLE said...

Best of luck on exams...

anonymous gal(retired blogger) said...

good luck in your exams. accept my condolences.

GERALD said...

Bad stuff... to read at times I wonder how could love take control of of people are they begin acting wierdly like that.. ooohhhh so bad

My condolences to u cute....just take heart...

I like studies... I like people who love academics, thats why I love u....Wish u success..... lol.

I too will sit for the end of 2rd semester of my final starting from 26th nov...
I want to read hard such that I can join any other University may be abroad for my post graduate...

Read hard and stay a good lady...

Obinwanne said...

its my b'day today as i mentioned in my previous post, and my exams have started and its going smoothly and im happy for ur prayers.... ayway i just pumped im to demand a visit to my blog cos i deserve it, IT MY B'DAY IMAGINE.....SO I DESERVE IT 100%......lol....thanks for stopping by anyway...

diary of a G said...

hey jaybabe!
tomorrow (November 9) is the birthday of a follow blogger
please won't you stop by to give your best wishes if you can

Unknown said...

Girl,
You better still be studying....


Pammy

Stuck in my throat said...

I feel so sorry for the woman o.The man has left her with children to cater for and has burdened hey with guilt she doesn't need.

eddiie said...

Hmmmm....i hope ya gettin on perfect with papers...

Just jumped in to check on ma gal..
:)

eddiie said...

Hmmmm...did i just say that smile was yummy.....Hmmmm..yummmy?..Oh...i just said that..

Afrobabe said...

I personally do not believe in killing myself for any reason oh...at all...I like life too much...If he felt he was the cause of her being in the hospital he could have taken care of her then stopped getting her pregnant...as princesa said...whta good is his corpse?

eddiie said...

Hmmmm...well ....well, am enjoying the dram of love in here.People actually kill themselves for love?

@Afrobabe...you gat it..i just do not think i can kill myself for love...

Anonymous said...

anything promised to us was to do everything to make it happen. Suicide is out of the question in context with physical homicide at 100% then again why? .. end up breaking your heart anyway.. sticking to the subjsect.. how is your silver fox

diary of a G said...

I agree with Princesa. what use is he to his loving wife now? very sad story but his action is questionable from where I stand

best of luck J
you'll be great

diary of a G said...

I agree with Princesa. what use is he to his loving wife now? very sad story but his action is questionable from where I stand

best of luck J
you'll be great

Unknown said...

that's sad

LurLar said...

Wooow...May his soul rest in peace. Good luck with ur exams!!!

Anonymous said...

2nd half?????

SOLOMONSYDELLE said...

Still studying, I see...will be back...

Dolly said...

all the best in your exams.......may his soul rest in perfect peace

Anonymous said...

WISH U SUCCESS

Anonymous said...

Been getting rid of my diary and found things that I needed delete, things never heard before, things meant to have been emailed... shrugs.. what a better audience than to the subject

Those that much covet are with gain' so fond That what they have not, that which they possess,
They scatter and unloose it from their bond, And so, by hoping more, they have but less; Or, gaining more, the profit of excess
Is but to surfeit, and such griefs sustain That they prove bankrupt in this poor-rich gain

This earthly saint, adored by this devil, Little suspecteth the false worshipper; "For unstained thoughts do seldom dream on evil;
"Birds never limed no secret bushes fear. So guiltless she securely gives good cheer
And reverend welcome to her princely guest, Whose inward ill no outward harm expressed

3 U R IN A WALKING N LOOKING AWESOME BUT IN DIRT N TAKES CHARITY. I HAVE MY MIND IN A VAGUE TRANCE, BUT VAGUE. (Dont know what i was thinking here)

Last piece..... IF IT WAS LOVE I CRAVED, I WOULDNT BE WRITING THIS NOW. IF IT WAS SEX, I WOULD BE BUYING IT NOW. I NEED STRENTH THAT U HAVE SO MUCH OF. POWER AND DANGER THAT YOU HAVE SO MUCH OF.

Well, only looking for an audience to seduce with words only in deap sorrow.. deleted though..

Unknown said...

You have been tagged!! But ,
who is this anonymous person. I think your stalker has found you Jay... :-(

Anonymous said...

stalking would be a denial, denial to accept defeat in a win win situation, situations that neednt have a mass publication, like the very blog you reading now. Now the passion is gone, torn by hail storm in a romantic rain. Reign to new places, new people, a new clean slate....

Too bad, the annonymous liveth in a real world. While you havent any idea who jaybabe is, just another person behind a firewall. What you might have read is from Shakespear... rings any bells @pamelastitch..

Anonymous said...

THE RAPE OF LUCRECE. (William Shakespear) Thats the title google it. Ma bad for not citin the source.

Admin UD said...

Goodluck in your exams

Unknown said...

IF IT WAS LOVE I CRAVED, I WOULDNT BE WRITING THIS NOW. IF IT WAS SEX, I WOULD BE BUYING IT NOW. I NEED STRENTH THAT U HAVE SO MUCH OF. POWER AND DANGER THAT YOU HAVE SO MUCH OF.

lol!! that didn't sound like shakesphere to me....

how you doing anon person...??? where is your blog site??

lol...Jay.....:D

bighead said...

My first reaction was to wonder whether that was actually the sole reason for the suicide...