Sort of...

Thank you so much guys for all the comments on my last post. I must apologise for not replying to all of them. By now you guys should understand what happens when it becomes month end this side. We get so goddammnn busy. But i'm back now and i must admit, it really feels good to be here again. The other thing, some of the comments published on the last post have finished the story for me so i dont think its wise to start writting to the end. Once again, thank you. Even though a fight broke out at the resturant, all the same the story ended exactly the way you guys thought.

So right i dont have anything gist, but just that i attended one bridal shower over the weekend. Ermmmm..one of my colleague is getting married next month, so they threw a bridal shower for her. Can you just imagine that its winter already here, and the dress code was either mini skirts or hot pants? God! These girls wanted to kills us ooo! Anyway Jaybabe was there and it was fun. Really fun. The girl who's holding that Turperware salad bowl is the one getting married. Showers are the same in any circumstance. You bring a present, they write you name down, and what you've bought. So that next time when you have your own function, they'll buy for you what you deserve. Fun right?

And then, ever since the new president was sworn in, he came up with laws that are really gonna suffocate some of us. Right now the prices for alcohol are gonna skyrocket. And i heard he's gonna tell the brewery companies to reduce the alcohol content, then increase the prices. Jesus Christ! Again he's changed all the times for bars and clubs' operation. Bars close at 10pm. Night clubs close b4 midnight. If there's a festival, everybody should be home b4 2am. Liquor stores dont open on sundays and during the week they open at 6pm and close at 10pm. Ha! My God! The Botswana Music Union is now taking the gorvenment to court, well...so i heard. I think the rate at which this guy is going, he's gonna step down b4 he knows it! The party animal in me is gone now. After the bridal shower thing, the DJ was there to rock the night away. Just as he was about to start, the police came in. By 11pm i was soundly asleep at Doc's House. Well, when we got home, Doc started teaching me her karate tectics. We were bored. There was nothing we could do. Her husband was sleeping so we couldn't even play some music!

See this hair style? Its called cock-screwed carrot. I donno who came up with that name. Well..i thought it looked great on some people so i decided to try it out sef. Not bad is it?

Ehen! Now, i'm gonna take my time making the rounds in Blogville. Mehn! I must be left behind. But seriously, i'm gonna make sure i pass through everybody's page. I think with the list i have now its gonna take me about 2 weeks to complete the round. Guys take care. Thursday and Friday are holidays so i'll be gone home. I miss my 3 in a row. Ermmm..one other thing...Pamela sent me her pictures. I'm all smiles today...**grinning**

When The Heart Says No

...(cell phone rings)

''Hey babe?''

''Hi. You busy?''

''Not that much. Why?''

''I wanted us to meet. I wanna talk to you.''

''About?''

''Meet me at Mophane restuarant in 30 minutes.''

''Ooooh babe can't it wait for later?''

''No Becky, it can't wait. Mophane rest. 30 minutes''

...

Oh God! What is it again? We've been talking about this many a times without number. I don't wanna talk anymore. Jason is just being so unreasonable! Why cant he control his temper? Why cant he be patient like i am? Why does he wanna rush things? I mean, it's been 4 years! 4 solid years, and we are still fighting over one thing. One thing only! God!-

''B, you're okay?''

''Hey Su, i'm fine. Its just that-''

''Its Jason again right?''

**sigh**

''Rebbecah, why don't you just go ahead and do as he says? You don't wanna lose him to another girl do yah?''

''Susan!''

''Ah-ah! Abeg, i know my name. How long has it been? 3, 4 years? And you sitting there tryina play some good girl?.**long hiss** What hasn't he done for you? Huh? What? Your wish has been his command all this time. Anytime. Anything you wanted was just a phone call away. And Becky he's been taking all this bull from you for how long now? Eeh? For how long is this your bloody heart gonna say no? Just for how long? Girlfriend, look, just give Jason what he wants and get it over and done with. Its for your own good ooo! For your own!''

''Suzzy, i know okay? I know. But we've talked about this with Jason over and over again! I can't deal with it anymore, you know? There's even come a point where i can't think of what to say any longer? Why can't Jason try and reason with me just for once Suzzy? Once. Why? Is that too much to ask? Yes he's done all i ever wanted for me, he's given me all the love in the world, and for that i'm thankful. But was it a gatepass to have me jump to any and every call he makes? Su, just look at it from a serious-minded woman's point of view okay? Or maybe take your very own experiences for example. What happened after you went to Pet's house? Why didnt he wanna see you after that? Boiki stopped taking your calls. Sam gave told you about his daughter after you guys slept together. Why the fuck are you not dating right now? Susan i been there done that, please, and i aint going thru that route ever again. If Jason can't wait then let him go catch another fish. There are so many of them swimming around you know?. Coz i'm willing to wait, and thats exactly what i'm gonna do.''

''If you say so girlfriend. But just know that when the world comes crashing down on you, i'll be right here to dry all those tears from your eyes..''

Question It!

It had gotten me thinkin..

What is the one single thing you'll like to change about your partner? Or what is it that you want him/her to change about themselves? Something that you know, that if its changed, your relationship will stand the test of time?

I need your answers guys.

Blessed weekend!

Ciaaaooo!

5 Simple Rules To Be Happy

1. Free your heart from hatred.
2. Free your mind from worries.
3. Live simply.
4. Give more.
5. Expect less.

No one can go back and make a brand new start. Anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending. God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow, sun without rain, but he did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears, and light for the way.

Disappointments are like road humps, they slow u down a bit but u enjoy the smooth road afterwards. Don't stay on the humps too long. Move on!!!

When u feel down because u didn't get what u want, just sit tight and b happy, because God is thinking of something better.

When something happens to u, good or bad, consider what it means. There's a purpose to life's events, to teach u how to laugh more or not to cry too hard.

You can't make someone love u, all u can do is to be someone who can be loved, the rest is up to the person to realize your worth.

The measure of love is when u love without measure. In life there are very rare chances the you'll meet the person u love and loves u in return. So once u have it don't even let go, the chance might never come your way again.

It's better to lose your pride to the one you love, than to lose the one u love because of pride. We spend too much time looking for the right person to love or finding faults with those who we already love, when instead we should be perfecting the love we give.

When u truly care for someone, u don’t look for faults, u don't look for answers, and you don't look for mistakes. Instead, u fight the mistakes, u accept the faults, and you over look the excuses.

Never abandon an old friend. You'll never find one who can take his place. Friendship is like wine, it gets better as it grows older.

This is meant for my friend Lebo. Forget about her going out with my ex, after all we did to her and for her. Forget about her looking up to me as her sister, and looking up to Rogy as her brother, and yet going out all the way to screw him! Forget about all that. The poor girl has lost weight, she can't think straight. She's even finding it hard to live on the same neighbourhood with him. Guys, she's finding it hard to let go of Rogy(who has brought in another live in girlfriend). She's finding it hard to move on. I'm trying on my side to make her see that there's still life after that guy. Look where i am since i parted with him. She cud do the same. I told her all she needs is time. Time heals all wounds. And in folowing those 5 rules above,she'll make it thru.

P.S Can somebody please tell Nkemugo that i wud like to visit his blog. I can't log into his page. Blessed weekend guys. Love y'all.